To Each His Own

Please don't ask someone to change his ways. He is his own person. Each of us is special. Let him live his life the way he wants to. I don't see anything wrong with him. As an adult I've learned to accept people the way they are. I never wished anyone to change even if some things annoy me. It's just not right. You wanted him to change but you just wanted him to adjust to you. Why can't you do it yourself then? Asking someone to change is heartless. You should learn to appreciate the people around you. His behavior is not abominable, yours is. If you thought you're doing a great service with your initiative, you're wrong.